The college life is a time of transition for incoming freshmen students. The first year will be a time to meet new people and build relationships aside from adjusting to the newfound independence. Speaking of relationships, one of the most common during this time is the roommate relationship, which can be heaven or hell. Here are 7 important questions to ask your roommate to avoid awkwardness in the future.
What are you studying?
This question serves as an ice breaker after you get past the introductions. This also helps you know your roommate a little better. Although you may not have the same subjects or be pursuing the same degree, you'll still be able to talk about the stress and pressures each of you are experiencing. This sharing of problems might turn out to be the ultimate bonding session you'll have together.
What do you think about chores?
Since you are sharing room, each of your habits will affect the other. To eliminate the future of smelly socks, leftover food, and unwashed dishes, it is better to talk about this early on. The best way to solve this is to have a schedule who will do what and make sure each of you commit to it.
Are you a morning or a night person?
This is the third in the 7 most important questions you should ask your roommate if you don't want to get murdered by a cranky roommate just because you woke him or her in the middle of her precious sleep.
How do you feel about guests?
Guests here mean overnight guests. Asking this question will save you and your roommate an awkward moment just in case one of you decide to bring in someone to stay for the night. How awkward can it be when you have to explain right then and there who is the person staying with you to your roommate.
Room temperature?
Talking about room temperature might not be very significant but it would save you much later, especially if you prefer different room temperatures. Imagine freezing to death at night while your roommate sleeps snuggly and comfortably under the covers.
Do you mind sharing?
It's a good idea to know how your roommate feels about sharing toiletries, appliances, or even clothes. However, you need to draw the boundaries clearly and respect each other's decision and preferences.
Did you steal my food?
This is the most awkward of the 7 most important questions you should ask your roommate. If you think your roommate is gobbling out your food when you're away, address the issue before it turns into World War III.
